What does a mother do anyway?

A man came home from work to find total chaos in his house.  His three children were outside, still in their pajamas, playing in the mud, with empty food boxes and wrappers all over the front yard.

When he walked in, a lamp had been knocked over, the TV was on, and the family room had toys and clothes everywhere.  Dishes filled the kitchen sink, dog food was on the floor, and a broken glass was under the table.

He ran upstairs looking for his wife.  He was worried that something serious had happened.  He found her in the bed in her pajamas, reading.  She looked up at him, smiled, and asked how his day went.  He looked at her and asked, "What happened here today?"  She just smiled and said, "You know every day when you come home from work and ask me what in the world I did today?

Well, today I didn't do it."

Did you thank your mother last weekend for everything she has ever done for you?

Do it now as you make a positive life in a negative world today.


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How grateful are you?

A friend recently turned 40 and her husband threw her a most excellent birthday party, complete with lots of friends and family, great food, wonderful music, and a slide show that covered all of her 40 years.  After the slide show, he asked her if she wanted to say something, and she did.

She started by thanking everyone for coming, and then started to cry very softly.  Now what you need to know is that turning 40 for her was more significant than for you and me.  Turning 40 for her meant that she has survived breast cancer after taking chemotherapy.  Turning 40 for her meant that she’s still here with her husband and children.  Turning 40 for her meant a heart overflowing with gratitude to God.  And that’s why her soft tears.

Trust me—there wasn’t a dry eye in the room!  Gratitude flooded everyone’s spirit.

Everything probably won’t happen just the way you want it to today.  But when something does go wrong, remember my dear friend who turned 40…and just be grateful that you’re here.  Live positive.  Work positive today.


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3 Positive Quick Meals to Sell More Productively

PositiveMeals 300x300 3 Positive Quick Meals to Sell More ProductivelyPositive salespersons sell 56% more than their negative peers. Positive leaders see team productivity increase by more than one-third.

So if you want to increase sales with greater productivity, be positive, right?

The question is, How? How do you Work Positive in such a negative world?

Feed your mind these 3 positive 10-minute meals daily to increase sales with greater productivity:

Positive Breakfast

Just like breakfast is your body’s most important meal of the day because it sets your metabolism, your mental breakfast is equally important.

Take 10 minutes each morning and:

1.      Read something positive or listen to positive music. Since you see what you’re looking for, you literally set your mental lens for positivity with this simple activity.

2.     Visualize your appointments for the day with positive outcomes. See the agreement signed. The challenge conquered. The solution discovered.

 Positive Lunch

Too often your mid-day break is consumed by a business meeting. Your mind misses its’ positive mid-day nutrition necessary for a quick recovery from the morning’s negative assault.

 Take 10 minutes each mid-day, get out of your work space, and:

 1.Walk, preferably outdoors. Fresh air and sunshine do wonders for your mental attitude. If weather prohibits, walk indoors. Exercise activates your brain’s mood elevators.

2.Call a positive friend whom you haven’t spoken to in a while. Relive some good times. Laugh at old jokes. Recall the warm feelings from that time and space.

Positive Supper

Before you head out for your commute, take 10 minutes and do 2 things:

1.     Give 5 minutes to a quick task and complete it. Write an email. Clean off your desk. Finish a spreadsheet. Your positive reinforcement comes from the completion of the task. The confidence you gain welcomes you the next morning.

2.    Take 5 more minutes and celebrate something positive that you experienced that day. Yes, some days require more thought to dig up the positive. If it seems that negative, be grateful you still have a job with a company whose payroll clears the bank! There’s always something positive, if you’re looking for it.

Increase your sales with greater productivity by feeding your mind these 3 positive work meals daily!


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Do you go for the cup or the coffee?

A group of very successful former students got together with their college professor.  They started complaining about stress in their lives.  The professor went to the kitchen and soon returned with a pot of coffee and a variety of cups— some plain and some exquisite—and told the students to help themselves.

Everyone helped themselves to the coffee, still complaining about their stressful lives.  The professor, after a few minutes said, “I couldn’t help but notice that you chose all the more expensive cups for your coffee.  And I couldn’t help but think that that is the source of your stress.”

“What do you mean, professor?” the former students said.

“All you really wanted was the coffee,” the professor said, “not the cup, but you chose the best cups and even eyed one another’s cups.  If life is like coffee, then the prestigious things that cause you stress are just the cups, tools to hold life without changing the quality of your life.  When you look only at the cup, you fail to enjoy the coffee.”

Enjoy your coffee as you work positive and live positive today.


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What’s your business about?

My wife boards horses on our farm for other people.  They bring their horses to our farm, she takes care of them, and the owners ride them.

A couple moved to our area from South Dakota and brought their four horses with them.  My wife boarded their horses for them.  The wife of the couple was pregnant.  So my wife helped her find an obstetrician to care for her.  And she got together some other women to throw a baby shower for her.

When the mother-to-be heard about the shower, she was elated and said, “You didn’t have to do all of this for me.”

And my wife replied, “When I started this business, I made a promise to use it to help others.  And that’s what I’m doing.”

How do you use your business to help others?  Can you smile at someone who’s had a rough day?  Can you treat others the way you want to be treated?  Can you be honest in all of your business dealings?

My wife’s business is about more than boarding horses.  It’s about helping others.

What’s your business really about?  Work positive today.


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Do you prefer blondes?

Divers in the South Pacific have discovered a new crustacean that looks a lot like a lobster, only as a blonde.  Its appearance is very much like a lobster but it’s covered with what looks like silky, blond fur.

The journal of the National Museum of Natural History in Paris reported the finding by a team of American-led divers off the coast of Easter Island.  The “blond lobster” is so unique that it merits its own family and genus.

The animal is white, about the size of a salad plate, and the blond fur covers its pincers.  Now lots of new ocean species are discovered every year, but rarely does one merit its own family and genus.

Amazing, isn’t it, how diverse and yet similar the created world really is?  Astounding, isn’t it, that we’re still discovering new forms of life every year?

The universe’s creative design for life takes on new expressions just about every day, doesn’t it?  Keep listening to life and discover your creative design as you work positive and live positive.


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3 Keys to Positive Productivity Today

productivity 3 Keys to Positive Productivity TodayPositive productivity is more difficult for most business persons these days. Persevering and achieving your business dreams in the midst of a negative world is increasingly challenging. The uncontrollable negatives from bombings to an unfamiliar economy that just won’t correct assault us daily.

How do you productively achieve your dreams today?

Here are 3 Keys to Positive Productivity Today:

Give Attention to Positive Thoughts

When you receive negative news, acknowledge your emotional reaction. Disappointment, anger, frustration, and other emotions must be processed to avoid blocking your emotional intelligence development.

However, do so quickly. Give yourself a little time to experience those emotions. Then flush them. Yes, multiple flushes are required sometimes. Do it and move on. Now.

As you flush quickly, you create room in your mind for what you can do to redirect the negative news. You focus on what you can control and influence, refusing to rent space in your head to what is beyond your reach.

Give attention to positive thoughts that are actionable.

Give Attention to Positive People

When you receive negative news, there typically is a messenger. If it’s technology-driven, cut it off. If it’s human, thank them and excuse yourself.

There are negative persons who enjoy delivering bad news. If there’s too much good news, they create negativity.

I call them Eeyore Vampires.

Their mantra is “It’ll never work.” They suck positive attention from you even when away from work trying to love what you do with those you love.

Treat Eeyore Vampires like they have a contagious disease and you’ll catch it.

Give your attention to positive people. Those persons who bring out the best in you, who have your best interest at heart, and who ask questions like, “How may I best serve you?”

Give Attention to Positive Outcomes

Each of us experiences outcomes that fall short of our expectations regardless of how hard we work or how much we prepare. When your negative news is of this kind, remind yourself of a previous experience when you exceeded your expectations; when you succeeded.

Celebrate that experience once more. Give attention to sustaining that celebrative attitude. Tell yourself, “If I did it once, I’ll do it again.”

Most likely, that positive experience was the accumulation of previous learning experiences of “bad news” like the current one. Reliving that success guides you to the next.

Give attention to positive thoughts, people, and outcomes and productively achieve your dreams today.


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What’s your passion?

We all have a passion for something, that is, we care deeply about something in life and we could give a lot of our time and energy, attention and money to that cause.  I coach lots of people searching for their passion.

I’ve discovered that maybe you think of passion just as something you can get excited about, something that you have to be all revved up about, when that’s not necessarily so.  Sure, you want to be enthusiastic about life in general and your passion specifically, but true passion is something a little different.

True passion emerges from that quiet place within you.  It feels natural to you, like, “This is what I was created for.”  Your passion kind of draws you to it rather than you choosing it.  It speaks to you and you listen to it.

You know that peaceful, easy feeling you get, you know how focused your mind is when you’re doing certain things or talking about a certain subject?  That’s passion.  It’s a gift.  So today as you listen to your life, listen carefully in the quiet of your heart for your creative design.


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Got your shine on?

Dr. Joey celebrates "Take Your Child to Work" week with his daughter, Rebekah, as guest blogger.

My dog, Raggs, is a miniature schnauzer which means most of the world is bigger than him so he defends me and himself pretty quickly.  I wanted Raggs to be social with at least some other canines.  So, I set up a doggie playdate with one of my friends and her dog, Oliver.  We planned to go to a dog park on a sunny Sunday afternoon.  I was really nervous when Oliver and his mommy arrived.  “What if Raggs didn’t get along with Oliver or any of the other dogs? What if he tried to defend me and got in a fight?”

Raggs once again proved me wrong as he shook with happiness as Oliver came into our home, showing Oliver his toys.  The walk to the dog park was a happy one and Raggs made several puppy friends.  He even became the “bouncer” of the dog park, breaking up fights.  It was as though he had found his element.  He was a really good dog that day.

Life has a way of showing you where you best belong.  Today, listen to your life for opportunities where you can shine, even those outside of your comfort zone.


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Made a mistake lately?

Dr. Joey celebrates "Take Your Child to Work" week with his daughter, Rebekah, as guest blogger.

As I mentioned yesterday, I was born with a head full of wonderfully curly hair and I was often compared to Shirley Temple as a child. I had no idea who Shirley Temple was since I was a toddler, but I always said “thank you” as my mother taught me. One day, my dad and I were shopping together and I saw a display of Shirley Temple videos. I got all excited and ran up to the videos and grabbed one. I turned around and yelled out to my dad in my loud two-year-old voice, “Look, Daddy! They made a movie about me!” He bought me three of them because I was so adorable.

We all make mistakes, don’t we? We can either take those mistakes and dwell on them or we can count on a divine chuckle along with a little help to turn our mistakes into a grand moment. Today, after you make a mistake, listen for a heavenly laugh and then discover how that mistake transforms into a grand moment for you.


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